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Values at a Crossroads

Updated: Nov 19, 2023

Currently, I’m navigating a challenging phase where my deeply-held beliefs are being put to the test. My upbringing in the South, under the guidance of my mother, instilled in me a robust set of values, emphasizing integrity, respect, and a strong moral compass. These principles have been the bedrock of my decision-making process, helping me steer my life in the right direction and choose the company I keep wisely.

My value system is a reflection of my Southern roots. I’ve lived by the creed of treating others as I wish to be treated, leading with respect, and always being a man of my word. I’ve learned the importance of hard work, often striving to outdo my own expectations. I’ve been selective about who I let into my inner circle, understanding that the people around me can either elevate or hinder my progress. I’ve always aimed to be a leader, not a follower, living true to the teachings that have proven their worth over time.

These values have not just been personal mantras; they’ve been my compass in navigating the complexities of life. They’ve helped me in times of fall, providing a framework to get back on track. The great men in history whom I’ve admired, like Malcolm X and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., seemed to succeed by adhering to similar principles, and their legacies have been a source of inspiration for me.However, I’m currently faced with a dilemma that’s shaking the foundations of these beliefs.

As I sit here on this plane to Charlotte, typing frantically, I’m wrestling with the idea of extending grace to someone who is undeserving. This individual stands in stark contrast to everything I believe in. It’s not about being judgmental; it’s about recognizing the toxicity that certain people bring. I’m learning that sometimes, you have to find a way to coexist with such individuals, even if it goes against your instinct to distance yourself from them.

This situation raises a crucial question: How do you maintain your core values and integrity when dealing with people who fundamentally oppose what you stand for?



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